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Karim I Elalfy wrote:ASA
--I'm sorry to write in English. Really, it is difficult to write in Arabic because of the keyboard. So, please try to focus more with me---
About People Behaviors, I think, it's the best classifications for people. Because it's based on Behaviors (reactions) only, without looking for the inherence of people (e.g. morals, intentions..etc.).Thus, the behave based one, I think this is acceptable in our Islam to deal with. I meant by ''best'', the most reliable and predictable value.
Papers of the material will be attached herein, and you can return to Dr.Elzahraa as well.

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2 dimensions (Ass, Resp) make 4 Cross sections (behavs : Driv, Expr, Anal, Amia). Each cross section has (2 pack up), these 2 pack-ups could demonstrate the whole characters of a particular personality.
1- 2 dimensions: The assertiveness means the most Directive (Goal Oriented) in brief. The Responsiveness means the most emotionally-showing for others and the most aware of others' emotions (People oriented).
Then matching,
Driver is = Most Assertiv + Least Responsiv
Expressive = Most Assertiv + Most Responsiv
Analytical = Least Assertiv + Least Responsiv
Amiable = Least Assertiv + Most Responsiv
2- So, There are 4 people behave-based categories: Driver, Analytical, Expressive and Amiable. Two dimensions (Assertivness and Responsivness) with 4 intersections(Most Assertve + Most Responsiv, Least Assertve + Most Responsiv , Least Assertv + Least responsiv, and Most Assertiv + Least responsiv).
3- The Pack-up is a protective mechanism to preserve someone personality integrity and emotional instability. The Pack-up is a reaction based on the specific character of each behaves. The Pack-up is a threshold (i.e the level at which the..(Specific reaction) will happen). The Pack-up is the situation at which the person becomes most sensitive and reactive since care and patience are mandatory to deal with. Each personality has 2 pack-ups in usual (2 threshold).
Examples, If minor to moderate stress faces the Analytical, he will avoid (doesn’t' agree neither act). If the same stress or different one becomes chronic or bigger, he will turn to his 2nd pack-up which is ''Reacting or Act''or to be ''Autocratic''.
Now, you can read all of that carefully in the material attached, but please read this notes first,
Notes,
1-Practice Observation: you have to observe much more behaves in different situations to understand more.
2- Be Flexible: don' stick everyone to a specific type. In contrast, give each one score from 10 for each type (i.e. somebody is 5/10 drive 7/10 analyt 2/10 expressive, 2/10 amiable)
3- Watch God: I think, this knowledge has a benefit of dealing well with people in different situations. Use it only as a better way for better communication, don' use it to judge and discriminate.
4- Who is the best: These types have not to be ranked as best and worst (i.e. Amiable is better than expressive). This is totally wrong. It is just a classification based on shape of the behave, like classification of peoples as white Caucasians, yellow Mongolian...> No one is the best except TAQWA
The Material was attached here Read
That's it
Salam

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